I just broke up with a modelacious narcissist who would make a perfect findomme if she were into kink. Financially she may have to resort to it because she can't keep a job!
As a c***d of the feminist era, I grew accustomed--and admiring-- of very strong-willed women, and most of the women in my family are this way. And my youth was before open internet discussions of the many flavours of D/s-kink. So 27 years ago I married my domineering-yet-insecure first wife which was ultimately uncomfortable for both of us.