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Lock Me Up! Chastity & Orgasm Denial

When everyone’s out here trying to get some action, why would you wanna hold back? 😬 Well, control and restraint is kind of the whole point… 😏


Today we’re learning all about chastity kinks, and why denying your orgasm might just make your erotic explosions even more intense. 😩💦💦👇


Why chastity? 😏


Let’s get this out the way quickly: you still get to fuck. 😆 While chastity might literally mean ‘abstinence from sex’, a chastity kink isn’t about stopping sex altogether. 🙅 In BDSM, chastity is all about the thrill of the tease. 🫦


We all know about edging, right? Elongating the moments before orgasm to heighten our sexual arousal? 🤤 Well, with a chastity kink, you get to stretch this erotic momentum out into hours, days, weeks… 😩 By holding back from certain elements of sex, or withholding orgasms altogether, you’ll keep a low current of sexual energy sizzling within you, and you’ll be ready for action at a moment’s notice. ⚡


Chastity goes hand in hand with BDSM roles – subs surrender their sense of control and ownership to their Doms. 🥺 “Whatever you want, Mistress!” 🙏⛓


Indulge in foreplay and build-up, let the murmurous sounds of pleasure escape from deep within you, and lead yourself to better (and wetter) orgasms! ✊


Create your rules ☝️


A set of rules made by Dom and sub together will help keep you on track and make sure your arousal builds exactly how your Dom wants it to. 😏 Create your own to suit you both! 😈


Your rules might be… 👉


☝️No touching yourself at all, but you can orgasm hands-free 🫦💦


☝️Ask your Dom for permission every time you wanna cum 🙋


☝️Touch yourself as much as you want, but never to full completion 🙅💦


☝️You can only cum once a week, or once a month, on alternate Sundays, etc. 🫦⏳


☝️…or something entirely different! 🤷


As always in BDSM, communication is vital. Doms, only boss your sub around if they’ve told you in advance that’s what they want. 👌


Lock me up 🔒


Different toys like cages and belts are available to help you keep your promise of chastity. 🥺 Let’s explore… 👉


💡 Chastity Tip: A chastity cage or belt is more symbolic than it is functional – for safety reasons, you need to be able to get it off in an emergency. It’s more about the feeling of being under your Dom’s control. 🔒


Cages 🍆🔒


A chastity cage is a kind of jail for your cock – it makes it difficult for you to touch yourself, and also for you to get an erection. It fits around your genitals, with two separate sections – one for your cock, the other for your balls. Normally, the lock goes around the separator, and this keeps you from getting hard. 🍆🔒🍒


Lots of us are used to stroking up and down the shaft to bring ourselves to orgasm, so not being able to do that makes it much more difficult (but not impossible) to cum. 😩


Depending on the rules you’ve set up with your Dom, you still might be able to cum while wearing your cage. 💧 If it’s a metal cage (which most are), place a wand massager onto the bars and feel those vibrations. ⚡😵‍💫 If you’ve been denying orgasm for a long time, a finger through the bars might be all you need to set yourself off. 😈💦


That’s pretty much the extent of how much stimulation you’re gonna get on your cock through a cage, so focus your attention on other erogenous zones. ✨ If you’re into anal play, prostate stimulation is your best friend. 🍑


💡 Prostate Tip: The prostate is the pleasure center of the butt. It sits around 2 inches inside, on the front wall, between the opening of your asshole and the base of your cock. Trust us, if you feel around, you’ll know when you find it! 😲😍 Some can orgasm through prostate stimulation alone, so perfect your angles and you might be in for a cum shower. Woohoo! 💦💦💦


Getting the right fit is really important when you’re wearing a cage, especially for long periods of time. Don’t scrimp on the cost, even for your first cage – it’s placed somewhere really precious, and quality will mean better comfort and safety. 🥰 A mid-tier price is probably best to start with, as you might want to size up or down based on comfort. 👌


Erections in a properly fitted cage will feel nicely constricted (which might feel good 🤤) without tugging on your balls. And when you’re turned on, your cock should expand to the size of the cage and push against the walls.


In essence: discomfort is fine, pain is not.


Take your cage on and off slowly and carefully. ⚠️ When you’re putting it on (under the strict instructions of your Dom, no doubt 😈), use a little lube inside the cage to stop it from rubbing, and carry a small bottle with you to alleviate any friction that might occur throughout the day. For metal or plastic cages, silicone-based lube is best because it lasts longer, but use water-based lube if it's a silicone cage. 💧


💡 Practical Tip: You can pee normally with a cage on, but it’s much easier when sitting down, because the angles can be challenging. 😆


You should always have a spare key for emergencies. 🔑 It might seem contradictory to the idea of being locked up, but isn’t it kind of hot thinking that you could free yourself, but knowing that you won’t? 🥵 It’s good to practice self-control – you want to be good for you Dom, right? 🥺🙋😝


Belts 🌸🔒


Chastity belts cover over your vulva so you can’t indulge in any clitoral or vaginal stimulation. 🙅 It’s more of an investment than a cage because it’s a bigger device.


When you hear ‘chastity belt’, you might have a vision of a big metal clunky thing, but most modern belts are much more manageable. They’re often made from more portable materials like leather and lightweight chains. ⛓


🖤 BDSM Fact: Chastity belts were a symbol of repression of women’s sexuality in Victorian Britain. Like so many forms of ancient punishment, they’ve been reclaimed in the wondrous world of kink – think about chains for bondage in the West or robes for shibari in Japan. ⛓


Like with cages, it’s important to have a spare key so you can escape in an emergency. 🔑


Better and wetter 🤤💦


When you eventually do get to go all the way – “please Goddess, I’ve been good, let me cum!” – your orgasms will be that much more intense, because of all that build-up. 🫦


“Put a towel down, because it’s about to get WET!” 😩😍💦💦💦


Do you love the idea of being locked up? Tell us all your horniest fantasies in the comments… 😈👇
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Spice It Up: Using Sex Toys With Your Partner

Hey you, it’s Jess from Phreak and I’m here to talk toys!


Let's dive into the fun and adventurous world of using toys with your partner. 😈 Whether you're new to this or looking to spice things up, toys can add excitement and fulfilment to your love life.


Here’s a quick guide to help you get started. 🍆


Talk First 👄


Communication is key! Discuss desires, boundaries, and fantasies to ensure you're on the same page. If you have different ideas, that’s okay too! Make sure you talk it out to find common ground.


Shop Together 🛍️


Explore toy shops together. It's fun and helps you learn each other’s preferences. Remember to shop for body safe, platinum silicone to ensure your safety.


Start Slow 🐌


Begin with simple toys like butt plugs or smaller dildos. Gradually introduce more adventurous items when you feel ready.


I recommend: Beginner Friendly Sex Toys


Set the Mood 🫦


Create a comfortable environment with soft lighting, music, and candles. A sensual massage is a great way to get things started.


Fulfil Fantasies 🤤


Toys can bring fantasies to life. Try using sex toys during role play for an added dimension to your play.


I recommend: Fantasy–Themed Toys


Experiment 🧪


From vibrators to feather ticklers, experiment with different sensations to find what you both enjoy.


I recommend: Popping your sex toys in the fridge or running them under water for some safe temperature play!


Communicate During Play 💬


Check in regularly to ensure you're both enjoying the experience. Use safe words if exploring power play. You could use something fun, like ‘Banana’ 🍌 or ‘unicorn’ 🦄, to keep up the playful mood if you’d like! Remember, you can change your mind at any point.


Laugh and Have Fun 😛


Keep it light and playful. Laugh off mishaps and enjoy the adventure together.


I recommend: Fun, Novelty Toys 🥕


Aftercare 🤗


Aftercare is essential. Cuddle, talk about what you enjoyed, and strengthen your bond. ❣️


Keep Exploring 🔍


The world of intimate toys is vast. Keep exploring and having fun together.


So, there you have it—a playful, punchy guide to using toys with your partner. Whether you're newbies or seasoned adventurers, toys can add a whole new dimension to your love life.


Happy exploring, and may your adventures be filled with joy, laughter, and lots of fun! For more toy recommendations, visit Phreak Club.


Until next time, Jess @mistress👩🏼‍🦰


P.S. Have any tips or experiences you’d like to share? Drop a comment below! Let’s keep the conversation going.
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Mistress-Justina
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Cet utilisateur n'a aucun cadeau. Faites le premier !
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Mistress-Justina
il y a quelque temps Lien

Lock Me Up! Chastity & Orgasm Denial

When everyone’s out here trying to get some action, why would you wanna hold back? 😬 Well, control and restraint is kind of the whole point… 😏


Today we’re learning all about chastity kinks, and why denying your orgasm might just make your erotic explosions even more intense. 😩💦💦👇


Why chastity? 😏


Let’s get this out the way quickly: you still get to fuck. 😆 While chastity might literally mean ‘abstinence from sex’, a chastity kink isn’t about stopping sex altogether. 🙅 In BDSM, chastity is all about the thrill of the tease. 🫦


We all know about edging, right? Elongating the moments before orgasm to heighten our sexual arousal? 🤤 Well, with a chastity kink, you get to stretch this erotic momentum out into hours, days, weeks… 😩 By holding back from certain elements of sex, or withholding orgasms altogether, you’ll keep a low current of sexual energy sizzling within you, and you’ll be ready for action at a moment’s notice. ⚡


Chastity goes hand in hand with BDSM roles – subs surrender their sense of control and ownership to their Doms. 🥺 “Whatever you want, Mistress!” 🙏⛓


Indulge in foreplay and build-up, let the murmurous sounds of pleasure escape from deep within you, and lead yourself to better (and wetter) orgasms! ✊


Create your rules ☝️


A set of rules made by Dom and sub together will help keep you on track and make sure your arousal builds exactly how your Dom wants it to. 😏 Create your own to suit you both! 😈


Your rules might be… 👉


☝️No touching yourself at all, but you can orgasm hands-free 🫦💦


☝️Ask your Dom for permission every time you wanna cum 🙋


☝️Touch yourself as much as you want, but never to full completion 🙅💦


☝️You can only cum once a week, or once a month, on alternate Sundays, etc. 🫦⏳


☝️…or something entirely different! 🤷


As always in BDSM, communication is vital. Doms, only boss your sub around if they’ve told you in advance that’s what they want. 👌


Lock me up 🔒


Different toys like cages and belts are available to help you keep your promise of chastity. 🥺 Let’s explore… 👉


💡 Chastity Tip: A chastity cage or belt is more symbolic than it is functional – for safety reasons, you need to be able to get it off in an emergency. It’s more about the feeling of being under your Dom’s control. 🔒


Cages 🍆🔒


A chastity cage is a kind of jail for your cock – it makes it difficult for you to touch yourself, and also for you to get an erection. It fits around your genitals, with two separate sections – one for your cock, the other for your balls. Normally, the lock goes around the separator, and this keeps you from getting hard. 🍆🔒🍒


Lots of us are used to stroking up and down the shaft to bring ourselves to orgasm, so not being able to do that makes it much more difficult (but not impossible) to cum. 😩


Depending on the rules you’ve set up with your Dom, you still might be able to cum while wearing your cage. 💧 If it’s a metal cage (which most are), place a wand massager onto the bars and feel those vibrations. ⚡😵‍💫 If you’ve been denying orgasm for a long time, a finger through the bars might be all you need to set yourself off. 😈💦


That’s pretty much the extent of how much stimulation you’re gonna get on your cock through a cage, so focus your attention on other erogenous zones. ✨ If you’re into anal play, prostate stimulation is your best friend. 🍑


💡 Prostate Tip: The prostate is the pleasure center of the butt. It sits around 2 inches inside, on the front wall, between the opening of your asshole and the base of your cock. Trust us, if you feel around, you’ll know when you find it! 😲😍 Some can orgasm through prostate stimulation alone, so perfect your angles and you might be in for a cum shower. Woohoo! 💦💦💦


Getting the right fit is really important when you’re wearing a cage, especially for long periods of time. Don’t scrimp on the cost, even for your first cage – it’s placed somewhere really precious, and quality will mean better comfort and safety. 🥰 A mid-tier price is probably best to start with, as you might want to size up or down based on comfort. 👌


Erections in a properly fitted cage will feel nicely constricted (which might feel good 🤤) without tugging on your balls. And when you’re turned on, your cock should expand to the size of the cage and push against the walls.


In essence: discomfort is fine, pain is not.


Take your cage on and off slowly and carefully. ⚠️ When you’re putting it on (under the strict instructions of your Dom, no doubt 😈), use a little lube inside the cage to stop it from rubbing, and carry a small bottle with you to alleviate any friction that might occur throughout the day. For metal or plastic cages, silicone-based lube is best because it lasts longer, but use water-based lube if it's a silicone cage. 💧


💡 Practical Tip: You can pee normally with a cage on, but it’s much easier when sitting down, because the angles can be challenging. 😆


You should always have a spare key for emergencies. 🔑 It might seem contradictory to the idea of being locked up, but isn’t it kind of hot thinking that you could free yourself, but knowing that you won’t? 🥵 It’s good to practice self-control – you want to be good for you Dom, right? 🥺🙋😝


Belts 🌸🔒


Chastity belts cover over your vulva so you can’t indulge in any clitoral or vaginal stimulation. 🙅 It’s more of an investment than a cage because it’s a bigger device.


When you hear ‘chastity belt’, you might have a vision of a big metal clunky thing, but most modern belts are much more manageable. They’re often made from more portable materials like leather and lightweight chains. ⛓


🖤 BDSM Fact: Chastity belts were a symbol of repression of women’s sexuality in Victorian Britain. Like so many forms of ancient punishment, they’ve been reclaimed in the wondrous world of kink – think about chains for bondage in the West or robes for shibari in Japan. ⛓


Like with cages, it’s important to have a spare key so you can escape in an emergency. 🔑


Better and wetter 🤤💦


When you eventually do get to go all the way – “please Goddess, I’ve been good, let me cum!” – your orgasms will be that much more intense, because of all that build-up. 🫦


“Put a towel down, because it’s about to get WET!” 😩😍💦💦💦


Do you love the idea of being locked up? Tell us all your horniest fantasies in the comments… 😈👇
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Mistress-Justina
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Spice It Up: Using Sex Toys With Your Partner

Hey you, it’s Jess from Phreak and I’m here to talk toys!


Let's dive into the fun and adventurous world of using toys with your partner. 😈 Whether you're new to this or looking to spice things up, toys can add excitement and fulfilment to your love life.


Here’s a quick guide to help you get started. 🍆


Talk First 👄


Communication is key! Discuss desires, boundaries, and fantasies to ensure you're on the same page. If you have different ideas, that’s okay too! Make sure you talk it out to find common ground.


Shop Together 🛍️


Explore toy shops together. It's fun and helps you learn each other’s preferences. Remember to shop for body safe, platinum silicone to ensure your safety.


Start Slow 🐌


Begin with simple toys like butt plugs or smaller dildos. Gradually introduce more adventurous items when you feel ready.


I recommend: Beginner Friendly Sex Toys


Set the Mood 🫦


Create a comfortable environment with soft lighting, music, and candles. A sensual massage is a great way to get things started.


Fulfil Fantasies 🤤


Toys can bring fantasies to life. Try using sex toys during role play for an added dimension to your play.


I recommend: Fantasy–Themed Toys


Experiment 🧪


From vibrators to feather ticklers, experiment with different sensations to find what you both enjoy.


I recommend: Popping your sex toys in the fridge or running them under water for some safe temperature play!


Communicate During Play 💬


Check in regularly to ensure you're both enjoying the experience. Use safe words if exploring power play. You could use something fun, like ‘Banana’ 🍌 or ‘unicorn’ 🦄, to keep up the playful mood if you’d like! Remember, you can change your mind at any point.


Laugh and Have Fun 😛


Keep it light and playful. Laugh off mishaps and enjoy the adventure together.


I recommend: Fun, Novelty Toys 🥕


Aftercare 🤗


Aftercare is essential. Cuddle, talk about what you enjoyed, and strengthen your bond. ❣️


Keep Exploring 🔍


The world of intimate toys is vast. Keep exploring and having fun together.


So, there you have it—a playful, punchy guide to using toys with your partner. Whether you're newbies or seasoned adventurers, toys can add a whole new dimension to your love life.


Happy exploring, and may your adventures be filled with joy, laughter, and lots of fun! For more toy recommendations, visit Phreak Club.


Until next time, Jess @mistress👩🏼‍🦰


P.S. Have any tips or experiences you’d like to share? Drop a comment below! Let’s keep the conversation going.
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