Hey you, it’s Jess from Phreak and I’m here to talk toys!


Let's dive into the fun and adventurous world of using toys with your partner. 😈 Whether you're new to this or looking to spice things up, toys can add excitement and fulfilment to your love life.


Here’s a quick guide to help you get started. 🍆


Talk First 👄


Communication is key! Discuss desires, boundaries, and fantasies to ensure you're on the same page. If you have different ideas, that’s okay too! Make sure you talk it out to find common ground.


Shop Together 🛍️


Explore toy shops together. It's fun and helps you learn each other’s preferences. Remember to shop for body safe, platinum silicone to ensure your safety.


Start Slow 🐌


Begin with simple toys like butt plugs or smaller dildos. Gradually introduce more adventurous items when you feel ready.


I recommend: Beginner Friendly Sex Toys


Set the Mood 🫦


Create a comfortable environment with soft lighting, music, and candles. A sensual massage is a great way to get things started.


Fulfil Fantasies 🤤


Toys can bring fantasies to life. Try using sex toys during role play for an added dimension to your play.


I recommend: Fantasy–Themed Toys


Experiment 🧪


From vibrators to feather ticklers, experiment with different sensations to find what you both enjoy.


I recommend: Popping your sex toys in the fridge or running them under water for some safe temperature play!


Communicate During Play 💬


Check in regularly to ensure you're both enjoying the experience. Use safe words if exploring power play. You could use something fun, like ‘Banana’ 🍌 or ‘unicorn’ 🦄, to keep up the playful mood if you’d like! Remember, you can change your mind at any point.


Laugh and Have Fun 😛


Keep it light and playful. Laugh off mishaps and enjoy the adventure together.


I recommend: Fun, Novelty Toys 🥕


Aftercare 🤗


Aftercare is essential. Cuddle, talk about what you enjoyed, and strengthen your bond. ❣️


Keep Exploring 🔍


The world of intimate toys is vast. Keep exploring and having fun together.


So, there you have it—a playful, punchy guide to using toys with your partner. Whether you're newbies or seasoned adventurers, toys can add a whole new dimension to your love life.


Happy exploring, and may your adventures be filled with joy, laughter, and lots of fun! For more toy recommendations, visit Phreak Club.


Until next time, Jess @mistress👩🏼‍🦰


P.S. Have any tips or experiences you’d like to share? Drop a comment below! Let’s keep the conversation going.