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07 March 2019, 3:51

Gag in BDSM Games: Pros and Cons

Gag is one of the most common attributes of BDSM games. A wide variety of options that are offered for different types of pleasures, allow everyone to get what they want: for someone it’s partner’s silence, and for someone it’s complete submission and acceptance. How safe is the use of a gag with a novice and experienced thematic, does it really allow to achieve the promised result?

Gag for Every Taste

The classic version of the gag – a soft or hard ball on leather straps – makes it impossible to speak, plugging the mouth. The same purpose is pursued by a gag-bridle. But the gag-ring or gag-spider – exactly the opposite – keep the mouth open. And this diversity does not end there: a gag-dick or a whole harness for the head, a muzzle or a ribbon — these are all kinds of gags that can be used for all sorts of BDSM games.

The gag can be used for role-playing sex games, and for full-fledged BDSM practice. It is important to listen carefully to the partner’s condition in order to track the moment when pain and humiliation turn from a pleasant seasoning into a traumatic factor.

Is It Possible to Use A Gag for Education and Humiliation?

The main purpose of the gag is to deprive the opportunity, and more importantly, the right of the submissive to speak. Or object. It also instills fear in the bottom partner that his pleas for mercy will not be heard and he no longer has the right to say something. Totally. It is very difficult to utter a word when the mouth is occupied by one of these things: only a lowing and sobbing thing comes out of the mouth. It is also hard to swallow saliva, which makes the use of a gag during BDSM games is not the most aesthetic, but very effective.

As an educational measure, the gag can be used when the submissive begins to dare to the Master/Mistress, refuses from individual practices. And it is very important here to understand – it was a refusal in order to get a punishment that will bring pleasure to both, or the practice is on the Taboo list.

How to Use the Stop Word If Gag IS in Your Mouth?

With a gag in his mouth, the submissive becomes a completely powerless and silent slave. This can be a piquant addition to the rest of the practices planned for the session. But in order for everything to pass safely and with mutual pleasure, it is necessary to resolve the issue with the stop word. As a rule, a certain object is given in the hands of the bottom one, which he can drop and thus show that he wants to stop the torture. Some kind of gesture can also be used, as long as it is something noticeable or loud, otherwise, the Top simply will not pay attention to the bellows of the bottom.

 

The gag in BDSM games can bring a lot of pleasure to both parties, however, it will also require more concentration from the Lord, who must be especially attentive to his Bottom. But isn't it a manifestation of care?