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28 March 2019, 7:09

Basic Bondage Rules

Bondage is one of the oldest practices of voluptuous BDSM pleasures. If you carefully dig, you can long be immersed in historical references and facts. And although theory is of great importance for thematics, in this case practice is more important. Bondage is not a macrame on the body, but the same beautiful and sensual art. It can be a prelude to sex or whipping, and can also be used as an independent practice.

Bondage Is Also About Psychology

Any BDSM practice is, first of all, a psychological test: will, pain threshold, patience, etc. Bondage verifies trust: painful bondage and aesthetic, though significantly different things, but boil down to one thing – limiting the mobility of the bottom partner. This means that the Top is allowed to do anything with the body of the bottom. Since the straps can be very different, include suspensions and not the most comfortable postures, the importance of trust cannot be overestimated. After all, a loop on the neck, genital bondage, or too tight a rope on a limb can lead to serious and sometimes not reparable consequences.

Bondage is persistent softness. Or soft perseverance. Control over what is happening is entirely in the hands of the Master, while the bottom one can only talk about his feelings, if allowed. To monitor the comfort, tightness of the tied knots and weaves of the ropes is the duty of the Top. As well as the choice of suitable material, poses and even musical accompaniment.

Precautionary Measures

Nowhere are the three basic rules of BDSM more relevant than with bondage. Security should be provided for the bottom partner first. Moreover, he should feel it throughout the session. Volunteering – everything that was said above about trust is not just empty words. This is especially important if this is the first experience for the bottom one, its peace of mind guarantees an excellent result. Reasonable – no need to experiment and twist the partner in the ram's horn. In addition, you must remember the following:

  • never, never put a rope around your neck, it is very simple to strangle a person;
  • do not put the rope on the joints, there are a lot of things that can be squeezed with an unpleasant outcome;
  • do not use self-locking knots and sliding hinges, otherwise you will not gnaw;
  • always keep a sharp knife on hand to urgently remove the ropes;
  • watch closely for connected limbs, if it begin to turn blue or turn purple – figure out how to change the harness, if you are going to continue. Fingers move with difficulty – remove the harness;
  • keep a first aid kit on hand.

Bondage can be a source of pleasure for both partners, if you properly prepare for it, both morally and physically. The main advice from practitioners: to know the measure, you do not need to try everything at once. This path can be stretched to the length of the entire rope, and even a little more.