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21 September 2019, 10:56

BDSM at A Distance: Practicing Virtually

In the age of technology, no one is surprised by relationships at a distance. All these applications, instant messengers and dating sites further contribute to the establishment and maintenance of online communication. However, with ordinary relationships, everything is clear – In most cases, this is a temporary measure and does not work for long. And what about BDSM?

Skype Orders

The requests and pleas of slaves to dispose of them are a common thing for Dominants and Dominatrix. However, now they do not sound out loud but are read on the screens of gadgets. Chat rooms and sites, instant messengers and applications have opened a new kind of dominance – online.

Some submissives argue that in this way they remain anonymous and receive an additional security guarantee when communicating with strangers. They pass the stage of grinding and establishing contact, almost immediately proceeding to the practice. The discussion of preferences and taboos remains unchanged.

The process itself is quite simple: in a messenger with a video connection, for example, Skype, a private conversation is created. Both sides turn on videos to see each other. The dominant gives the order and monitors its implementation. Something akin to virtual sex, only without sex directly.

Dominants rarely find it particularly enjoyable, but they can use this practice as a variety, rather than a permanent action.

Financial Dominance

Financial dominance most often occurs online. Mistress, but statistics say that it is men who in most cases give preference to this practice, give orders or appoint rewards for a certain amount.

Everything happens on a voluntary basis and cannot be regarded as extortion. And yet, in order to protect themselves from law and lawsuits, some Top prefer to sign a preliminary contract, a waiver of claims or a similar document.

Financial dominance may occur without prior agreement. For example, Dominatrix has its own website, where details are indicated. Submissive, ready to serve her, can independently send money to her card, without any guarantees or promises from the Mistress.

Long Separation in A BDSM Couple

Another option in which the practice of BDSM can occur virtually is the separation of the BDSM couple. As a rule, Mr. or Mrs. give orders before departure and check their execution online. This can be either an online video chat or sending photos.

Moreover, these couples can also arrange real-time online sessions. Another option would be an online broadcast of the submissive's actions for his Mistress and guests or everyone else. Everything will depend on the relationship and preferences of the couple.

BDSM-online is not as rare as it was before, however, nothing beats a full-fledged session, where the contact of two partners is maintained at the physical level, and not thanks to technology.